Talking about cultural differences

1. Real-Life Conversation

Situation: Emily, an American, and Kenji, a Japanese student, are discussing cultural differences over coffee.

Emily: Hey Kenji, I noticed that when we greet each other, you always bow slightly. Is that a common custom in Japan?

Kenji: Yes! In Japan, bowing is a sign of respect. We bow when we greet someone, say thank you, or apologize. In the U.S., people usually shake hands, right?

Emily: Yes, or sometimes we just say "hi" and smile. But I heard that in Japan, shaking hands is not that common.

Kenji: That’s true. Some Japanese people do it when meeting foreigners, but it’s not our usual way. Also, I noticed that in the U.S., people are more direct when expressing opinions. In Japan, we often avoid saying "no" directly.

Emily: Oh, really? That’s interesting. So how do you say "no" politely?

Kenji: We might say something like, "That might be difficult," or "I’ll think about it," rather than directly refusing.

Emily: That makes sense. I also noticed that in Japan, people don’t talk loudly in public places. Is that considered rude?

Kenji: Yes, being too loud in public, especially on trains, is seen as impolite. But in the U.S., it seems normal to talk and laugh in public.

Emily: Right, we don’t really think about it! I love learning about different cultures—it helps me understand people better.

Kenji: Me too! Cultural differences make the world more interesting.

2. Key Phrases and Expressions

  • "Is that a common custom in [country]?" – Used to ask about cultural habits.

  • "[Action] is a sign of respect." – Explaining respectful customs.

  • "In [country], we usually [custom]." – Describing cultural habits.

  • "I noticed that in [country], people [behavior]." – Observing cultural differences.

  • "Is that considered rude?" – Asking about etiquette.

  • "Cultural differences make the world more interesting." – A good phrase to express appreciation for diversity.

3. Cultural Insights

  1. Non-verbal Communication: Some cultures prefer bowing (Japan, Korea), while others shake hands or even kiss on the cheek (France, Spain).

  2. Direct vs. Indirect Speech: Western cultures tend to be direct, while many Asian cultures prefer indirect communication to avoid conflict.

  3. Personal Space: Some cultures (e.g., the U.S.) prefer more personal space, while others (e.g., Latin America) are more comfortable with close contact.

  4. Public Behavior: Speaking loudly in public is normal in some cultures but considered rude in others.

4. Practice Exercise

Complete the following dialogues with suitable phrases from the lesson.

1. A: In my country, we greet each other with a kiss on the cheek.
B: Oh, really? _______________? (Ask if it’s a common custom)

2. A: In Japan, people bow instead of shaking hands.
B: Oh, I see. _______________. (State that bowing is respectful)

3. A: In the U.S., people are quite direct when speaking.
B: That’s interesting. In my country, _______________. (Describe indirect speech)

Answers:

  1. Is that a common custom in your country?

  2. Bowing is a sign of respect.

  3. We often avoid saying "no" directly.

5. Discussion Questions

  • Have you ever experienced cultural differences when traveling or meeting someone from another country? How did you handle it?

  • What are some cultural habits in your country that might surprise foreigners?

  • Why do you think learning about different cultures is important?

By practicing these expressions and discussing cultural differences, you can improve your ability to communicate in English while gaining a deeper understanding of different cultures!

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