Learning to be polite in English is not just about being nice—it’s about showing respect, building good relationships, and communicating effectively in different situations. Whether you're speaking to a teacher, a colleague, a stranger, or even a friend, using polite words and phrases can make a big difference in how others perceive you.
In this lesson, you’ll learn the most common polite expressions used in English, with easy-to-understand explanations and practical examples.
1. Basic polite words
Here are the simple but powerful words you should use often:
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Please – used when making a request
Example: “Can you help me with this, please?” -
Thank you / Thanks – used to show appreciation
Example: “Thank you for your help.” -
Excuse me – used to get attention or to be polite when interrupting
Example: “Excuse me, do you know where the restroom is?” -
Sorry – used to apologize or to show sympathy
Example: “I’m sorry I’m late.”
2. Polite ways to make requests
Instead of being too direct, English speakers often soften their requests. Try using these:
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Could you…?
Example: “Could you pass me the salt?” -
Would you mind…?
Example: “Would you mind helping me with this form?” -
Do you think you could…?
Example: “Do you think you could show me the way?”
Using these phrases makes your request sound more friendly and respectful.
3. Polite ways to respond
It’s also important to respond politely:
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Yes, of course.
Example: “Yes, of course, I’d be happy to help.” -
No problem.
Example: “No problem, I’ll take care of it.” -
I’d be glad to.
Example: “I’d be glad to help with that.”
4. Being polite in conversations
You can sound more polite in conversations by using indirect language and softeners:
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I was wondering if…
Example: “I was wondering if you had a moment to talk.” -
May I…? / Might I…?
Example: “May I join you?” -
Would it be possible to…?
Example: “Would it be possible to reschedule our meeting?”
These expressions are useful in formal situations, such as work, emails, or when talking to strangers.
5. Giving polite opinions
When giving your opinion, being polite helps you sound respectful:
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I think… / I feel that…
Example: “I think this option is better.” -
In my opinion…
Example: “In my opinion, the design needs improvement.” -
It seems to me that…
Example: “It seems to me that this solution might work.”
6. Practice tip: Make it a habit
To remember polite words long term:
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Use them in daily conversations.
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Write short dialogues using these phrases.
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Watch English shows and notice how characters speak politely.
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Practice speaking aloud with a partner or recording app.
Being polite in English is not difficult—it’s about choosing the right words at the right time. With regular practice, you’ll sound natural, kind, and confident in any conversation.
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